That definitely goes against stereotype of loud outspoken leader and shy quiet follower. Quiet followers do exist, but far not every introverted loner is a quiet follower.
However, reality is not a stereotype. In fact, it is somewhat the opposite of stereotype.
Submissive men are outgoing and outspoken, while dominant ones are often quiet and secretive loners.
That is because of parenting and upbringing issues.
Parents and society often encourage submissive behavior in men. Thus, a submissive man will readily approach any female he likes and will offer to serve her, knowing full well that his actions are approved by parents, society and everyone around him.
Even if girl does not like him, people around him will encourage him to keep pursuing her.
In contrast the very same parents and broader society scares dominant men with feminism, women's rights and social ostracism. Thus, they become introverted and secretive. They do not want to expose their fetishes and preferences to the wrong person and get into some trouble as a result.
So, they practice what they like in private and try to avoid undue attention from feminist zealots.
For men like that trust is important. They have to make sure they can trust the girl to not be a feminist and not rat them out to parents and other such people.
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