I often like to use word slave when referring to the kind of girl I like. In BDSM there are couple of equivalent terms such as 'sub' or 'bottom'. However, I prefer term 'slave' as it carries permanence. One can top or bottom for some time and then stop. Slave on the other hand carries permanence, the idea that is not merely a role to play in sex at times but a permanent place in life.
In fact, people who see it as just a kink to play sometimes when they are bored often use terms 'top and bottom.'
In contrast those who see it as a permanent lifestyle choice and natural order of things instead use terms master and slave. Remember Sir Stephen in 'Story of O' wanted to brand O because that will give greater permanence to his ownship of her.
I am clearly in a permanent lifestyle group. I am master who looks for female slaves to serve me in both BDSM sexual and lifestyle way. I frequently make it explicitly clear that I only top and never bottom or switch. The only role I desire to fulfil is that of a master.
Thus, I want a girl who is no less clear and unambiguous about only fitting the slave role. TrueHellDei for example was unsure about many things, but she was rather clear that it is being a slave that she wants.
I will not feel comfortable with a girl who swings between being top and bottom. As I mentioned many times I do not like dommes and femdom. In fact, anything that makes her come out as top is like a red flag to me.
I want a girl who is clearly and unambiguously slave/sub/bottom type. Who can only bottom and cannot top at all.
And she has to be bottom most type. Everything about her should look and feel bottom. She has to think how she can be even more or a bottom slave that she currently is. She has to aspire to reach full depth of bottomness slavery for herself. I do not like low effort girl in that regard.
Things like dogeza, crawling on all fours, licking toilet bowls, floor, boots or asshole do show that kind of attempt to go even lower to the very depth of slavery, submission and humiliation. That is why I like these kinds of fetishes.
Since I call myself an Emperor of the Universe, it is only fitting that my slave girl should be on the other extreme of complete subordinated subservient powerlessness.
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