Sunday, September 3, 2023

Megapost on What I Like and Do not Like in Girls Mannerism and Appearance. Last updated 25/11/23



This one is about non-sexual safe for work kind of stuff.

For sexual poses and fetishes there is a separate blog post here.

So, let's begin.

Do not like: Girls putting hands on their waist, or folding arms in front of them


I guess I will put a picture to show what I mean. That looks unfriendly and confrontational. Completely un-submissive. Even one hand on waist looks bad.



Girls folding arms in front of them also look unfriendly and un-submissve to me.

Like: Girls holding hands behind back

In contrast holding hands behind back or holding them in lock position looks rather submissive to me. It does not always make good submissive impression, however.


Here are also arms in lock pose. That one clearly needs a picture as just googling it makes gives to many lock poses that does not look submissive at all. Also, in the same picture below, you can see girl sit in proper Seiza position.



Do not Like: Girl rising her chin.

I think that gives impression that she is arrogant and looks down on you. I do not like it.

Like: Girl bows down or doing a dogeza

Bowing down was a way of showing submission since time immemorial. Surely it is not in fashion nowadays, but surely can be done in private or even discreetly in public.

In private she can even do a dogeza, which I like a lot. It is like taking submission to the ultimate level.


Do not like: Girls sitting and laying relaxed.

The way she sits on a chair or lays on bed can actually show a lot about her attitude. If she is making herself comfortable and looks confident it makes her look domineering and spoiled rather than submissive. Here are couple of examples of sitting in such a way.


Like: Submissive ways for a girl to sit.

In the western world woman cannot readily sit in seiza or wariza position like a Japanese would. However, there are ways to sit on a chair in a humble submissive way. Examples are not many but here I found one:

Legs together and either straight or better sideways like in picture. 

Arms should be kept together on laps rather than on armrests.


Like: Girls Sitting on knees (Seiza) and Wariza


Originally a Japanese tradition but here are some western girls doing it.

Also, a wariza, as slightly different way to sit that I also like


There is difference in how apart legs are from the butt, but all look cute to me.

Do Not Like: Sunglasses


Eyes are mirror of the soul; you can see a lot by looking people in the eyes. Sunglasses obstruct the eyes and prevent me from seeing her soul. I do not like girls who keep her secrets from me.

Sunglasses give so called 'cool' looks, but it is guys who should look cool to be attractive, girls have to be cute.

Besides many modern sunglasses designs are ugly.

Ordinary glasses on the other hand can look cute, depend on the frame design. 


Like: Pouring Me Drinks



This is a nice Japanese tradition that allow girl to showcase her caring and serving abilities. It is simple: just take a bottle and refill my drink for me. However, it does shows that girls have ability and willingness to serve, patience, attention to details and hospitality skill.

Generally Japanese traditions showcase girl's human and everyday abilities from best possible angle. Like for example holding even very small cup with both hands, like in the picture.

If she can show such a great care and concern for even such as small item, then she seems like a pseron who will show enough care and concern for you as well.


Do Not Like: Business Suit with Pants Especially

Business suit makes girl look manly and authoritarian. Its screaming 'I am authority figure that needs to be obeyed and respected.' The polar opposite of what I am looking for in a girl.

Other clothes that I do not like on girls are jackets, especially the ones with shoulder pads that make shoulders look bigger and wider. Female body naturally has narrower shoulders than male one. So, making shoulders artificially wider will make woman look more like a man and repeal potential sexual partners. This is the most stupid thing woman can wear.

Not all pants are the same though. Back in 2000s there was fashion on skinny low waist jeans, these are well designed, and they do make girl look girly. Business pants of 2010s do not. I have a separate article about 2000s fashion.

Like: Pleaded Skirts, Pencil Skirts and puffy Sweaters. 



Pleaded skirts make girl look light, easy, girly and somewhat younger even.

Puffy wide sweaters make her look soft and gentle.

Finally pencil skirt make her look slimmer and suggest that she likes to be restrained. Very important considering that I want to tie her up and restrain her.

All are the qualities I want in a woman.

There is a bigger article I wrote about clothes alone. I can go near forever about that.

As a general rule I like it when her clothes are either super tight or in contrast visibly oversized.

As for lingerie, I will write about it in sister article.


Do not like: Sharp eyes

Recently there was trend in makeup to make to either make ridiculously huge eyelashes or these sharp triangular at the side of the eyes. See picture below. I think this looks hostile, unfriendly and ungirly. I do not like it.

They give tsurime eyes feel, which I also do not like.
It is appalling that this stuff is in fashion nowadays.

Like: Heavy shades to make eyes more round

Big round eyes look more cute and pitiful. I like that.

This makeup closer to tareme eyes that I like.

More details in separate article.

It is appalling that it is so hard to find a picture of a girl with a makeup that I like.

It is difficult to showcase what I like without it.


Do not Like: Fur or predatorial animal patterns.

I think I did mention that I do not like business suits on girls. I think they show that woman wants to be an authority figure and wear pants in a relationship. I do not like that.

I also do not like it when women wear fur coats or any large jackets in general. They too give privileged and entitled look. I do not like that in a woman.

Finally, I do not like it when women wear things in predatorial animal patters. Leopard or tiger print cloths for example. I sure do not want to date a predatorial woman. Leopard cloths do give me the impression she is predatorial.


Like: Competition Swimsuit

I like these one-piece tight competition swimsuits. Japanese porn has plenty of girls wearing them. However, I do like them to be tight fitting her as well as having X patter straps on her back rather than open back. I think open back looks sloppy.

Bonus if her competition swimsuit goes all the way to the neck. I generally like when woman wears cloths that tightly fit neck.

Some examples below:


Do Not Like: Drunk, Smoking or Drugged Girls

I do not like it when people smoke. So, itis only natural that I would not like it when a girl smokes.

I also do not like it when girls are drunk or intoxicated with drugs.

She has to behave and control herself.


Like: Insecure Girl

I think it is cute when a girl is somewhat insecure about herself or her appearance.

I do not like it when she believes she is pretty.

I much prefer her to think she is not that great, even if she does look good.


Like: Self Aware Girl

I think self-awareness makes girl better overall. It does makes her appear more honest and truthful to me. I want my girls to be honest with me. I do not like girls who hide something from me.


Like: Micro-bikini

I think micro bikini look cute and silly in a good way. it is if girl cannot find bikini of a fitting size, it is very adorable.

Do not Like: Red Hair

I do not like girls with artificially dyed red hair. Red hair is like huge red flag that she is an arrogant Karen and should be avoided.

The only good thing about it is that it warns me of Karen-ism and make it easy to avoid them.



Like: Ginger, Reddish-Orange Hair

In contrast reddish ginger hair looks kind of cute. People dislike them for some reason, but I think it makes them even better. That means that girl with ginger hair is probably a loner, ostracized by society. I find this sympathetic.

Do not Like: Gym-junkie, sport girls

While it should have been nearly obvious, but I think I should mention that separately. Lifting and building biceps are not going to make you attractive. Muscles makes girls manly and reduce their femininity. That is not attractive at all.

Muscular girl is an attractiveness equivalent of the guy who uses female beauty products to look 'fabulous'. 


Do Like: Big Ribbons on the back of the head.

This looks cute. Innocent and pure. 

It also helps objectifying females. She is just a one large Christmas of Birthday present. A present one will want to open.



Will add more info later, so keep an eye on this post.

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