Since I listed types of girls that I like, I also need to list types of girls that I do not like.
Girl that Complains About Me (Tsundere)
I absolutely hate it when girls complain about me. No matter the reason it is just a no go.
No number of redeeming qualities can fix that. If she complains I do not want anything to do with her. Mahiru from Angel Spoils Me Rotten has plenty of redeeming qualities, but she still complains about male MC and calls his lifestyle unacceptable. That kills all her chances with me, alas.
This is a reason I hate Rin Tohsaka from Fate series and so many other anime girls that have tsundere trait in them. This type has a clear label for them, tsundere. I always kept saying I hate tsunderes. Now you know why.
Unless she can see me as perfect and flawless, I do not want her. Or at least pretend that I am flawless.
Girl that thinks she is very Important (Himedere)
An example I can bring here is Boa Hancock from One Piece. I do not like their arrogance and perception that they are better than everyone else. Once again there probably no redeeming qualities.
I just do not like arrogant girls. I am the only Emperor of the Universe around here; I simply cannot stomach anyone who things they are better than me.
I can be merciful to those who accept that they are inferior compared to me, but I take it as lese-majeste if anyone thinks they are better than me.
Even if girls is good, smart and what not, she still should be humble enough to not flaunt it left and right.
That is also the reason why I do not like various celebrities and pop singers. Such career and attention it brings to girls, does push them into arrogant territory. Being surrounded by sycophant and fans they sure lose sense of reality that not everyone is into them.
It is a hard way back from there, that is probably not possible for most. After all you get used to good things and these sweet praises that sycophants give you.
Girl that is too confident and Strong (alpha-girl)
Tamaki Kousaka from to Heart 2 comes in mind. However, there are plenty of other girls who do not hesitate to hit a guy or just do whatever they want, like say Kirie Kojima from Girls Bravo.
As to why so: it is not girly for starters. However, the most important reason is that I do not want to compete or fight with her for power in a relationship.
I want stability and I want a girl who is clearly weaker, and inferior compared to me. So that there will be no question as to who is in charge of this relationship.
That is also a reason I pay so much attention to various gestures that can show girls subordination and deference to me. And in real and not ironic kind of way, like they call Tamaki from Code Geass Grand Minister of Partying.
Conclusion
These three traits are like red flags to me. No redeeming from there.
I guess the girls who the total opposite of the three traits is above can attract me as well, for example Tomoko from Watamote, Lucy from Elfen Lied or Hitori Bocchi.
However, that would be a hard call without any clear positive traits.
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