I want to know how to test a Submissiveness and Doormat-ness of a Woman?

While I can easily analyze various character archetypes, such as 5 types of women post in anime section I wrote recently. 

However, these are the women designed by men to appeal to men's tastes. Each design to appeal to a certain type of man and all together pulling their anime into popularity and enduring fan's love.

However actual women do not work this way.

In fact, crucial information I want to know before committing is surprisingly hard to get.

I do want to test just how much of a submissive obedient doormat of a person she is. I do want to make sure she is a doormat enough and does not have any insubordinate tendencies. 

However, I hardly see any opportunities to actually test something like this in real life.

This makes picking a girl hard.

Asking for help on this one is also hard, as feminist would simply decry me for wanting a girl to be a submissive doormat in the first place and refuse to help.

Thus, I am hoping the things will change in society and Maledom BDSM will become more accepted.

That way men and women who are into that will be able to find each other without feminists and other moral busy bodies getting in the way of our happiness.

Traditional Japanese culture clearly makes women to give away submissive doormat vibes. However, Japanese girls are not so easy to find.

Modern 2010s culture clearly makes women look un-submissive and turns dominant men away from them.

Not sure what else can work here.