I have to paraphrase Sir Stephen from Story of O here.
You confuse love/affection with sex/lust.
They do often come together; they are not contradictory to one another. They are two distinct components that together form romantic sexual love relationship.
Affection often comes with sex. However, there can be affection without sex and sex without affection as well.
In fact, affection supposed to lead to sex, that is why people show affection the the opposite gender after all.
For example, woman in Japan give man they love chocolate to show him her affection.
~Love is an emotion that make you show affection to the opposite gender.~
Affection not always leads to sex. Sometimes it remains unrequited. However its intention is sex most of the time.
CC's Geass made people love her. Show her affection with intention to eventually have sex with her. Well for some it was only affection without any sexual intentions.
From there story does not specify whether she rejected all her suitors, slept with them all or slept with some.
Well eventually she started to think that Geass induced affection is not true love. They only show her that affection because of the effect of that power. This is superficial pseudo-love.
They do not really understand her or care for her. They remain strangers and perhaps it is this power prevents them from getting any closer.
Not because there is no sex and anything like that, there could have been plenty of sex.
Because there is lack intellectual connection. Lack of understanding between her and them.
Lack of that understanding left her unfulfilled. So she lived on, seeking something like that.
Eventually she gave up even on that and simply wished to die.
She eventually found true love in Lelouch. The only one who could understand and love her.
That is the ultimate romantic love with intellectual connection and sex. Full package kind of.
I wrote all that, but from my experience a lot of IRL people are not able to understand this kind of complicated emotions, feelings and thoughts that connect CC and Lelouch.
Many other people are more base and purely physical.
Others are superficial and only care about outward appearance of that relationship.
I cannot relate to that kind of base or superficial people. This is not the kind relationship I want.
I want intellectual connection and understanding like Lelouch and CC, or at least a girl who can show me a lot of affection and serve me obediently.
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