Actual Sins and Virtues

 

Previous article was good at laying the groundwork, however nature of each individual sin and virtue still has to be covered separately.

However, first is a a more conceptual idea.

Devilish sinful charm is not something like a guilty conscience. A demon is someone who willingly defy God as well as everything he stands for. Every rule and every virtue. You should not feel any guilt, just a complete determination to corrupt and defile everything you can get your hands on. As if you try to say fuck god with every action you take. Complete defiance like that of pirate and an outlaw. Why do you think girls like outlaws.

Similarly, an angelic purity and innocence is not a moral high ground. Any high ground, no matter how moral, is a sin of pride. Angelic purity and innocence is that a newborn puppy or a kitten, who is willing to blindly trust everyone around them. Like a freshly cleaned white clothes. Blank and unstained with any colors, but ready to be stained by the one who will claim it. That is the reason why the bride's dress is purely white, with no other colors in the mix. Even bride's face is covered in veil.

Lust/Chastity

The first sin is lust and the opposing virtue to that is chastity.

Lust is simply a desire to fuck, to have sex. Now some might ask, what is so wrong with healthy sexual drive. Why Church calls it sin, are they stupid, or is it something else. It is something else.

A guy who actively wants to fuck a woman or even fuck anything at all, will be well liked by women. So, a guy should not hide his sexual desires from object of his desires. Being confident and upfront about it can win a lot of points. Sure, you might have to observe some social norms, perhaps use innuendo, but you should not think of the desire to stick your dick into her as of something to hide from her.

The opposite is not true, however. A lusty girl would be called a slut and shamed. The reasons are many. First guys do not appreciate it if women have any sexual partners other than themselves. Being too lusty will make them think, you covet sex from others as well.

The second reason is physiological. It is a man who has a dick, and it is he who will be sticking it into a girl. As much as girl can be penis-envy and wish to have one herself, she does not have one. So, she should not behave as if she intends to stick anything into anyone.

She however should be receptive of his advances. Chastity is not the same celibacy where you deny all sex and sexual things. Chastity is loyalty to one partner paired with sexual passivity, where one does it to satisfy the other and not themselves. 

Men much prefer to think that sex is about satisfying themselves. Some even believe that girls do not need sex and even will feel better without sex at all. 

As much as girls probably crave it a lot more than men do, it just works better if they act like they only do it for him and only for him. They do it only to make him feel better by massaging his dick with their holes and body, not to satisfy any of their own cravings.

They should not fall into celibacy either, by willfully denying him sex. That is called cock-blocking and is not appreciated at all.

Maintaining careful balance between lust and celibacy is chastity.

Gluttony/Temperance

Gluttony often associated with overeating and getting fat. However, it should be taken in a broader meaning. An unrestrained behavior of any kind, where you just go for whatever, you want. "I want it all, I want it now:". Even:"I do whatever I want".

In contrast temperance is modesty in consumption of all things. Limiting yourself to your basic needs and doing with little.

Temperance is much easier to explain. Sad truth for many girls is that guys do not like fat girls. However, that goes much further than that. They also do not like girls who drink too much alcohol. Do drugs, smoke, eat too much, party too much, talk too loudly, spend too much and so on.

In fact, the more girl can deny herself, the more guys will like her. If that would not be true, then kimono and pencil skirts, that obstruct the movement significantly would not be popular with men. Sure, kimino is exotic Japanese dress, but many office girls around the world wear pencil skirts.

Thus, temperance is girl's best friend.

The opposite of temperance seems wrong, but I would like to quote Iskander from Fate/Zero here. "The king must be greedier than any other. He must laugh louder and rage harder. He must exemplify the extreme of all things, good and evil. That is why his retainers envy and adore him." Male retainers will hardly be impressed, but women will surely be and will want to sleep with him.

Women think that guy who is bigger than others in all things are also stronger and more alpha than the rest. May be dumb but it works.

To paraphrase this quote for girls. "The angelic girl should be more modest than any other. She must be the quietest and calmest of them all. She must exemplify the moderate and average of all things, good and evil. On then men would want to fuck such as mysterious angelic being."

Greed/Charity (Kindness)

Greed is desire for having more money owning more stuff as well as advancing your status in society. That seem like the most common-sense aspiration one can have. Acting contrary to all of these seems like the most stupid thing to do.

On the other hand, charity is something society approves a lot. There are plenty of various charitable organizations that help different people in need. Billionaires donate millions to charitable causes. So, throwing away your money does have some social benefit after all. Or is it?

I will start with a simpler question. Girls indeed prefer greedy man. For much of the same reason as the gluttony above. They can feel that if you are greedy who have what it takes to compete with others, win and take control of your prize. At the very least you will look like someone who knows what he wants and who goes for it. Girls like these qualities. Greed looks like strength and charity can sometimes look like weakness and stupidity. 

If not greed, then at the very least they do not find charitable behavior endearing at all, so you might as well be selfish.

Sure, charity is socially approved thing. However, there is more to it. On informal level people will appreciate it if you can help them or share/give something to them. Some will sure take advantage of it. That is another way to look at it. 

However, whether they have genuine need or taking advantage, they will still much rather interact with someone who gives them free stuff than with someone who do no. It is a tradeoff between wishing for more company at expense of money and other resources. Or preserving one's resources/belongings at expense of social isolation. Each make their own decision on this one. However, if one is greedy, then they should not complain that no one wants to talk to them.

Another thing is childcare. Children need a lot to grow up and parents should provide for them. Particularly a woman, as women do most of childcaring. If she is too greedy/stingy than kid will likely go without. That is not a good sign for a future mother.

Finally, unlike women who respect strength and intelligence, guys value people who give them free stuff much more than someone who does not do so, no matter what the reasons might be.

I will continue with the remaining sins/virtues in a separate article.