On Adulthood Conclusion

I wrote so much in the previous post and by the end of it felt that the whole thing somewhat missed the purpose. That the key issue remained uncovered. Thus, I decided to write this supplementary article.

The key issue is that society as a whole and some its members in particular do like to burden men with various responsibilities and other such unpleasant things. These responsibilities and hardships can drive one to suicide. 

Thus, dodging and avoiding these responsibilities is essential to happy and pleasant life.

Now women can be a lot of burden. Deliberately or not some of them do make men's life harder than it should be. Discouraging others from seeking relationship with their toxic example.

However, it does not have to be this way. Women can be helpful and useful to a man. By cooking food and cleaning shit she can make men's life better, and she should do these and other things for the man (for me).

It is a question of mindset and upbringing, I guess. Especially of mindset. 

Some women are nothing but useless burden, plague and curse. Other are nice, useful and can make your life better and easier. The question is only how to avoid the former and find the latter.

That does not negate the need for independence and autonomous power base for me. To make sure it is I who call all the shots and control everything.