On Adulthood

Some anime has a recurring theme that sleeping with a woman somehow makes you an adult. Often there are also some goofy characters, that pursue it like no tomorrow.

In reality that it is hardly the case.

In fact, being careless with that thing and doing to a wrong woman can ruin your life in major ways.

Pursuit of sexual relationship is like a trap, laid for you by society. Some women are unwitting bait, who may lead you to ruin unintentionally. However, some women are actually aware of this pitfall and actually willing to drag you down into it, like some preverbal siren or mermaid.

If she gets pregnant and has a baby, then your life might get shackled to this baby for the next 18 years. Sure, laws here differ from country to country, however in Russia it is a common fraud that women do and get away with. Not sure if Australian law is just as much on a pregnant woman side as Russian one is. Possibly not, but it is rather ambiguous.

Sure, you can deny baby is yours and insist on paternity tests. However, you have to be adult enough to understand what these things are. As young person, you might listen to your parents, her parents or her herself and marry her instead pushing her cheating ass away, thus sealing your doom.

Even if paternity does shows you as a father, you can still refuse relationships with her.

Personally, I could never trust my parents to untangle me out of any such complications and prevent women from playing the pregnancy card. In fact, they seemed wished it happened to me instead, such a treacherous people they were. Thus, I avoided women.

Even worse if that happens when you yourself is below 18 and financially dependent on your parents. By getting a baby you might accidently shackle yourself to them, to her and to baby for another 18 years.

A disastrous outcome if you actually worked hard to free yourself from your parents and their influence.

To make matters even worse it might as well be that baby is not even yours biologically. However, if your name is on the birth certificate, you are legally responsible for it. Even if some alpha chad gym junkie knocked down "your" girl, and genetically its half his and half hers. You do not want to work your ass to feed that cuckoo kid, like a cuckold or even witold.

Thus, fast sex can be a receipt to a disastrous mess where best years of your life will be dedicated to working to support a cheating wife and a kid who is not even biologically yours.

Society and boomers created this mess with their feminism and other idiotic ideologies. Now they are asking: why are Millennials are single, do not date, marry or have kids? Because we are not retarded, we have brains, that is why.

Thus, to avoid slaving for the system "to support the family", it is best if you avoid pregnancy, especially early pregnancy.

Sex is not a path to adulthood; it might as well be a trap into literal slavery.

Of course, society is to blame for making it so. Together with boomers who only care for "protecting" women and do nothing for men. First, they skewer relationship dynamic towards things women wants and then ask why men do not want to date or marry. That is because we have nothing to gain from relationship. Even expecting her to make sandwiches or other food is sexist somehow. However what use is a woman that does not cook or clean after you?

Feminism made it near impossible to trust a woman. Without trust there can be no relationship.

Anyhow, we, Millennials will not be cuckolds or slave ourselves to support cuckoo baby. When we are in power, we will be able to rewrite the laws to address our interests and concerns.

Until then it is best to avoid getting entangled with women. Particularly with women who cannot prove you their trustworthiness and lack of any ulterior motives.

To the question of adulthood. Adulthood is when you have agency over your own life. When you are not a pawn to your parents, or some cunning vixen's wishes.

Before taking over the pride, young Lions spend some time alone on their own. That is because they are proud creatures. They are not some cattle who would hang around in a herd where some alpha bull fucks all the cows, while they could do nothing but watch. When they are ready, young lion comes back to kick out the old one, slaughter his spawn and take over the pride for themselves.