How Strict Parents Ruined My Life

 

A little meme picture actually explained how my parents ruined my life with their strictness. Because both of them were so abusively strict, I ended up becoming an antisocial loner. I think many other so called 'forever alone' types also had strict parents who ruined their lives for them.

(Mom was nothing but strict, but dad was somewhat more of a mixed, but still mostly strict)

Because of them I am wary of interacting with new people as I am too concerned that they might turn out as strict as my parents were. I do not want to experience something like them again.

Same with potential girlfriend. Terrified by my mom's example of how cruel, heartless and strict they may be, I am too afraid to simply approach some girl out there because I cannot know if she is kind and caring or cruel and strict. Some girls clearly give away strict cruel vibe and I always avoid them.

Same with friend or potential employers. They too might turn out strict and cruel.

They probably thought that strictness will prevent me from becoming alcoholic. However, 'the solution' ended up much worse than the problem. Not only I am antisocial loner, I also hate their bloody guts to death and cannot wait for them to die a painful and miserable death. Their fate should be extra miserable and painful to compensate me for the pain and suffering they caused me with their abusively strict parenting. I want them to die, that will be my rightful revenge.

I think other people with abusively strict parenting also ended up with ruined lives as a result of their parents' actions. Now we cannot get anywhere in life because of that. Abusively strict parenting is a bane of society that ruins children's lives and produces homelessness and other ailments. Because of that abusively strict parenting should be made a crime and parents who are excessively strict towards their children should be punished by the government.

If my parents would tell me how to dodge all the rules and game the system to get ahead, I might be able to succeed in life. Instead, they were only making sure I follow their stupid rules as well as stupid rules of school and society. 

Fedya taught me a few things about dodging the rules and getting around them to get what I want, but his experience was not enough to get far.