How Boomer Popular Culture Ruined Women

 

Back in my teens I liked music videos like these. I was annoyed by stuffy rules my parents and school were imposing on me and wanted to get away from it all. Here in these videos girls ditch annoying school for a road trip and a beach. I too wished I could just ditch school and parents and spend the rest of my life in on Antalya beaches. The best memories of my early life all come from resort hotels and towns, a happy break from a dreary school with its bulling classmates and pressing obligations.

Couple of dozen years later, looking at these videos now as an adult, I noticed something I used to overlook in the past. No, I did not change my mind about school or resort hotels. 5 star resort hotels are the best thing in the world and school I wish I could forget. 

Just to clarify education in Australia was a mixed bag experience, fresh from Russia I mostly liked study in Australia. Looking back at it now, I can see flaws here as well. Flaws compare to how it could be, not compare to education in Russia.

 

In contrast education in Russia is pretty much all bad with no redeeming qualities. People who say Russian education is best, are blinded by patriotism morons who do not know jack shit. Studying in Australia only made it more apparent who most of what Russian 'education' make students do is utterly pointless waste of time. 

On top of that there is also bulling and other unpleasant interactions with classmates. There is no bulling problem in Australia, at least I did not experienced bulling in Australia. Only in Russia schools utterly fail to do anything problem students bulling classmates.

However back to original topic. The problem with these videos, that I noticed many years later, is gender relationships and female behavior in general. Back in the days I did not look at it from sexual perspective, so fresh look exposed this problem. Aerosmith particularly likes to make music videos like these. Other musicians of the era do it too but the way Aerosmith depict such things make it more obvious than others. 

Aerosmith members are all early boomers by age so you can their music boomer music. Even younger musicians can sometimes be considered part of boomer pop culture, as it is likely boomers who control who get to be signed to record labels and promoted and who does not.

The problem is that girls in these videos could get away with anything. It is always girls who do various things and men in these videos either accept it or downright encourage it.

Such wild unhinged and uncontrollable females is not something any reasonable man would want to date, much less marry. Maybe boomers liked girls like these, but Millennials do not.

I am not criticizing these videos because of nudity, exposed bras and so on. I personally like porn and do not see problems with sexualizing and objectifying female body.

What I am talking about girls should not be proactive or initiative in a relationship. This video gets gender relationships backward. 

Girls should dress pretty but behave like a weak fragile flower that has no agency or control over its life. Feminists decry the fact that "men objectify women". However, for a woman to look attractive in male eyes, she has to be objectifiable. She has to look more like an inanimate object that can simply be claimed and used as man sees fit rather than a person with its own emotions and desires. These videos make women to behave exact opposite of that.

I like Maledom BDSM precisely because it allows to make women more of an object using BDSM gear. Gagged, blindfolded and well restrained women getting infinitely closer towards the objectifiable ideal women than without these things.

However, BDSM alone cannot do it. Women have to show predisposition towards being tied up and controlled by a man. It should be easy to picture her sitting there quietly in chains and restrains. Good woman is someone who does not and cannot control her life and lets man control her instead. Her fate is not in her own hands, but in my hands alone. That is how I like women.

Why Western Men Choose Asian Women

I was originally writing this as part of why Japanese culture has global appeal article, but this topic became so long, I decided to make it a separate article.

It is almost not a secret that Western world has a serious issue when it comes to making relationships between genders fulfilling. No one with exception of Alt-right openly calls it a problem with society. However, are many anecdotes and jokes about all the stress that drama that comes with a relationship. Too many to dismiss them as just hearsay and not be concerned. Some of the stories about misfortune that comes from marriage and relationships are so horrible that they make people think twice before even trying to date anyone.

In the west both men and women like to put all the blame on the opposite gender. Women think men are weak and have no sexual drive or attraction. They often calling relationship boring and want to escape. Men on the other hand think that women are irrational and impossible to understand. Neither side is satisfied with the opposite gender, and both think it's entirely the opposite gender fault.

Western women find solution to their relationship problem in dating Black men. Unreasonably high popularity of rap music is a reflection of this rather sad reality.

Western men look towards Asian women instead. This demand is so huge, entire Thai cities live entirely of While men looking for Asian women tourism. Some just go to Thailand to have fun with prostitutes, other do bring Thai girls home as wives. Even some relatively popular people do it. 

The only reason this is not on the pages of celebrity gossip magazines only because such magazines are mostly popular with women. Women do not want to read about men choosing Thai women. People generally prefer comforting lies to uncomfortable truth; magazines cater for such demand. Celebrity magazines fabricate stories of select few mainstay celebrities, whose whole life is a clever careful fabrication by editors who just know these stories sell, no matter how untrue. These people maintain fake relationship with an unlikable feminist woman; no real actual man will even look at. Celebrity magazines lie.

As much as media and some celebrities like to assert that "new feminist woman" is the way forward, the reality is that most men do not find "feminist modern" women attractive at all. To center this feminist trend, men want a woman that is polar opposite of a "modern feminist woman". Asian women seem like just such opposite.

Those men who are OK with a "modern feminist woman" will just find themselves a western girl. It is those who want a different kind of girl, look for a girl in other countries. More often than not their search ends on Asia.

However not every Asian country is the same. By extension not every Asian girl is the same. A Chinese is different from a Japanese, Chinese from one province can be different from Chinese from another province.

However, from the distance western men could easily overlook such difference, assuming that all Asian girls are the same. These assumptions give other Asian girls a good chance with a western man.

Broadly speaking western men look for a Japanese or a Japanese-like girl. Japanese culture is the most familiar and most well understood of all Asian cultures. Japanese are known for being humble and polite, traits opposite of bold, assertive, feminist woman. Its these peculiarly Japanese traits that western men want in a woman. Even if they end up with a Chinese or Korean girl, they will pick her based on how Asian (read Japanese she is).

Since there are not many Japanese in the west, other Asian girls got picked too. Many of these are Chinese simply because there are many more Chinese in the west than Japanese or other Asians. However, Chinese is not a necessary good pick for someone who wants a girl who is not like western one in every way. Broadly speaking Chinese culture and identity revolves around assumption that China is great, ancient and well accomplished civilization. As a personality trait this can be called pride, which is the opposite of Japanese humbleness. Not every Chinese is equally prideful however and that will give Chinese girls who are not prideful a much better chance at getting a western man than those who are prideful.

Koreans, Vietnamese and Thais all have their own peculiar cultural traits. Thailand is known as country of smiles and a smile in western culture associated with welcoming and friendly demeanor. Thai are particularly popular among men. Otherwise, prostitution will not be as widespread as it is in Thailand. If a man willing to pay $100 for an hour with a girl, then this girl must be very appealing in his eyes. Yes, morals often look down on prostitution as immoral and low thing to do. Broad society looks down on women who sell themselves for money, but men pay for them because they like them.

If you analyse Thai culture, then you can draw some parallels with Japanese one. Thais can also be considered humble and polite, a be it in somewhat different from Japanese way, but humble enough in western eyes.

As to why western men like humbleness and look for that traits in women, then some might want to explain it with biology and natural instincts. That is true but only partly. I would also add that humbleness offers best guarantee that women will take care of you, your home and your children. Women who lack humbleness will be more likely to neglect their duty to their husband. Most men want a woman who does take care of them and their home. These things are the only benefit woman can bring into man's life. Thus, it's a natural choice for a man to look for a humble woman.

Any other traits in a woman do not produce any good outcomes for a man. Ambitious women will likely divorce him and marry someone else; he will lose a lot of money. A nagging wife will shorten his lifespan with her nagging. A feminist does not even do anything to benefit man in any way. Boldness and assertiveness are not traits men find attractive, women like these traits but men find them repulsive. 

Thus, it's only natural for a man to pick what is best for him: a humble wife. The only option that does not result in a bad outcome for him. In our current society this option is provided by Asian women. Thus, western men choose Asian women. This is the reality of the world around us and a most gainful choice in given circumstances.