How Boomer Popular Culture Ruined Women

 

Back in my teens I liked music videos like these. I was annoyed by stuffy rules my parents and school were imposing on me and wanted to get away from it all. Here in these videos girls ditch annoying school for a road trip and a beach. I too wished I could just ditch school and parents and spend the rest of my life in on Antalya beaches. The best memories of my early life all come from resort hotels and towns, a happy break from a dreary school with its bulling classmates and pressing obligations.

Couple of dozen years later, looking at these videos now as an adult, I noticed something I used to overlook in the past. No, I did not change my mind about school or resort hotels. 5 star resort hotels are the best thing in the world and school I wish I could forget. 

Just to clarify education in Australia was a mixed bag experience, fresh from Russia I mostly liked study in Australia. Looking back at it now, I can see flaws here as well. Flaws compare to how it could be, not compare to education in Russia.

 

In contrast education in Russia is pretty much all bad with no redeeming qualities. People who say Russian education is best, are blinded by patriotism morons who do not know jack shit. Studying in Australia only made it more apparent who most of what Russian 'education' make students do is utterly pointless waste of time. 

On top of that there is also bulling and other unpleasant interactions with classmates. There is no bulling problem in Australia, at least I did not experienced bulling in Australia. Only in Russia schools utterly fail to do anything problem students bulling classmates.

However back to original topic. The problem with these videos, that I noticed many years later, is gender relationships and female behavior in general. Back in the days I did not look at it from sexual perspective, so fresh look exposed this problem. Aerosmith particularly likes to make music videos like these. Other musicians of the era do it too but the way Aerosmith depict such things make it more obvious than others. 

Aerosmith members are all early boomers by age so you can their music boomer music. Even younger musicians can sometimes be considered part of boomer pop culture, as it is likely boomers who control who get to be signed to record labels and promoted and who does not.

The problem is that girls in these videos could get away with anything. It is always girls who do various things and men in these videos either accept it or downright encourage it.

Such wild unhinged and uncontrollable females is not something any reasonable man would want to date, much less marry. Maybe boomers liked girls like these, but Millennials do not.

I am not criticizing these videos because of nudity, exposed bras and so on. I personally like porn and do not see problems with sexualizing and objectifying female body.

What I am talking about girls should not be proactive or initiative in a relationship. This video gets gender relationships backward. 

Girls should dress pretty but behave like a weak fragile flower that has no agency or control over its life. Feminists decry the fact that "men objectify women". However, for a woman to look attractive in male eyes, she has to be objectifiable. She has to look more like an inanimate object that can simply be claimed and used as man sees fit rather than a person with its own emotions and desires. These videos make women to behave exact opposite of that.

I like Maledom BDSM precisely because it allows to make women more of an object using BDSM gear. Gagged, blindfolded and well restrained women getting infinitely closer towards the objectifiable ideal women than without these things.

However, BDSM alone cannot do it. Women have to show predisposition towards being tied up and controlled by a man. It should be easy to picture her sitting there quietly in chains and restrains. Good woman is someone who does not and cannot control her life and lets man control her instead. Her fate is not in her own hands, but in my hands alone. That is how I like women.