Difference between Behaving Modestly and Dressing Modestly

Recently there began a trend towards wearing grandma style clothes and hair among women. That is probably a response to criticism that girls became too slutty and immodest. However, grandma style clothes are not the solution to the problem, especially if it's a behavioural problem. 

There is a difference between dressing modestly and behaving modestly. One can dress modestly but behave immodest. Take for example Ada from Black Lagoon, she wears nun's habit but acts like your average bar hopping, booze drinking street girl.

It is also possible to dress immodestly but act modestly. Examples are all over the place, as anime industry generally works to create such girls on industrial mass production scale. However, to illustrate the point, take Shino from .hack/Roots. She wears stockings with exposed garters and upper tights (zettai ryōiki) but behaves very humbly and modestly.

If you needed any more hints as to which type men prefer, then I will just give the answer, it's the latter. Girls should dress pretty and sexy but behave modestly and humbly. It's the Japanese manners, not body shape or even clothes (though kimono has certain appeal too) that are so attractive to men. Japanese girls are taught to behave modestly, and they do. Western girls should learn to behave Japanese and not dress grandma.