On Differences Between Genders

 

Determination, not sure if it should be used so generally. I think you say that because you are girl and enjoy it more when you are fucked with determination rather than half-heartedly. I kind of thing a woman would naturally wish for. Often men cannot understand that at all since they themselves do not see/feel it this way.

Back in the days I could not see it like that, but later I could kind of see it from a girl's perspective/point of view. I guess True, Kaichou wa Maid Sama and Book of Well Cultured Anonymous helped me to the extent.

I would say physiological differences between men and women lead to psychological differences as well.

For example, many traditional cultures do praise virginity as something good. On the other hand, some modern tendencies view it as something shameful even. However, there are also some traditional societies that also do not see virginity as something good, I think Polynesians are like that.

Why would different cultures reach such polar views on virginity? That is because in one culture their views were shaped my male psychology and in others by a female instead.

That is because different genitals made each gender seek different traits in a partner, and through these lenses each gender shaped the culture of their societies to meet their expectations from a potential mate.

For example, as far as I know women do not like 'virgin' men. They prefer men who know what to do and how to do it. Because of that 'popular' guys get all the attention from the opposite gender. Women think that since so many other women like him, perhaps slept with him, then he must be good.

The opposite however is not true. Feminists often complain about 'slut shaming'. So a 'popular' girl hardly gets the same treatment as a 'popular' guy. However, guys slut shame precisely because in their psychology a woman that had too many partners is not good at it but rather more of a used goods or worn goods. Even those who do not slut shame are not attracted to a 'popular' girl simply because she is popular.

In sex as well. After all guys can only fuck a girl if he has an erection. Also, he has to put a physical effort of actually ramming his dick into girl's holes. Thus, girls naturally want to know how well any guy can do any of it. His stamina, erection, sexual abilities, skills and experience matters due to how it works and girls look for these kinds of things in guys. Perhaps girls also like these qualities in other things as well.

On the other hand, for a guy a hole only differs in its tightness. So unused, fresh new hole is much more desirable than old, used, worn out and stretched by other dicks. Guys prefer fresh, brand new and unused in other things as well. 

Feminists say that men objectify women, but that is how sex works from men's perspective. Girl is but a doll with holes, she does not need to be anything else. In fact, anything else can even get in the way of her primary purpose of being a barely animate doll with holes.

These psychological differences between genders go much further and extend to other things as well.

Most likely they are fundamentally based on the different reproductive realities of each gender.

For example, women can only have a limited number of children and she has to bear each child for 9 months then give birth and feed a child with her breast milk for some time. All of that puts a lot of strain on her body. Thus, her psychology and instinct demands that she should be picky with her partners. Because of that she can even get to the conclusion of seeking a man who is stronger than her and other men. To make sure if she gets pregnant, she bears children of someone worthy.

Guys are often pissed with that particular trait that girls show and complain that for a guy to score it he has to be cool, interesting, rich, strong and what not. While a girl does not need much more than simply exist.

In contrast, guys do not have to bear children. They can have as many children as often they can have sex, which can be even several times a day. At ejaculation they produce millions of spermatozoon and each can theoretically get a girl pregnant. And once a girl is pregnant, he can simply leave her with his baby inside and go impregnate some other girl and then another one and another.

Because of all that guys think and feel differently about sex and a relationship. Unlike how girls think, for guys it is quantity rather than quality. Guys can afford that physiologically. That is why harems are always one man and many women.

Unlike girls for guys, it is actually better if the girl is weaker and by all counts inferior rather than superior to them. That will make landing and impregnating her easier and less costly then a more challenging, picky and assertive girl. If a girl is already smitten by his sex appeal, it makes it all the better and easier for him to simply take advantage of a girl who already craves it and fuck her. Girls do not like desperate guys, but guys do like desperate girls.

Therefore, manly guys and easy girls have a blast sexual life and everyone else languish in agony, complaining how the other gender fails sexually.

Those with enough virility, manliness and flexibility will simply do any and every girl then can easily enough stick their dick in. Those with enough manliness, but not enough stamina and flexibility will prefer weaker and easier girls so that they can still do more girls with less effort on each of them. Those with not enough manliness, but with enough desire will end up going for more complicated and challenging girls simply because the other two types will not bother with them and they will not have competition for them.

I think the Iwata, Watanabe and Sumiyoshi trio from Excel Saga illustrates each type well. Maybe there is a final type who has neither manliness nor desire and spends time inventing stupid shit like feminism instead.

There is however another consideration for guys. I wrote to you about it earlier but will repeat it here. Virginity. Unlike girls, guys cannot be 100% certain that the baby she is pregnant with is his. After all everyone who ever fucked her in any given period of time could be the one who impregnated her. Whoever's spermatozoon got to her ovum, is the one whose genes and traits the resulting child will have. Therefore, guys have good reasons to make sure it is theirs and not that of some other guy. 

No one wants to end up spending time and money raising a kid who is not theirs genetically.

Because of that female virginity and fidelity is highly praised while infidelity is either punished by law like in Muslim countries, or lead to divorces and other complications in the West. 

This dualism of men's consideration for women often leads towards rather diverse conclusions on their taste or selection of women. On one hand you want to do it as often and as easily as possible, on the other hand you need to make sure others do not stick their dicks into your women's holes.

Ideally one would want a girl whom he can fuck and use in every way 24/7, but who is unavailable to others. That is why Muslims make their women cover their faces and hair. And generally, do not let them meet other men at all.

Once a Muslim friend invited me to his home. He has a wife and four kids; however, he would not let me meet them. The room they were in was off limits to guests. Ancient Greeks in Athens but not in Sparta actually did the same thing.

And if you can't have both and have to choose, then:

A very picky woman will be a pain in your ass, however other men are unlikely to bother with her so low chances of her getting pregnant from someone else being your back. I guess people who really want kids can opt for that option.

On the other hand, those who are in it for hedonistic pleasure would want as easy of a girl as possible.

That leaves a girl with contradictory objectives on sexual issues.

Thus, there is no single silver bullet attraction method that will work on every man out there. 

In contrast, once a man reaches a certain level of prowess, he can more or less always get more sex.

As always there are exceptions and special cases based on peculiar circumstances. Real life is always like that.