To begin with choosing a woman is not just a simple scale between 1 to 10 or something like that. In my life I saw a number of 10/10 women and could even have one if I wanted her. She was very pretty and most guys around me were into her, even I would admit that beauty alone she was the prettiest around. However, even back then I felt that she is not my type, not because I thought that she was too hot and I did not deserve her, but rather because she lacked important qualities a simple beaty scale does not reflect. Instead, Instead I preferred a different kind of girl: smaller, quieter, humbler, demurer and more devoted to me personally.
Looking back at it now, I can say that this was wise of me. Prettiest girls in town always come with a drama, that make men lament trouble women bring and sometimes get disillusioned with them altogether. People complain about losing it all in divorce or joke how neither man, nor God ever rested after the latter created woman.
Think of it, a girl who has many men around her will always be a problem. People who choose such women are fools. Sure, people will praise you for being lucky, finding someone so hot, but behind the scenes they will think of cheating with her behind your back. You cannot be with her 24/7 and when you are not around, they will come to keep her company. Some of them might even convince her to divorce you and merry him instead. Even if by chance she is actually bona fide good natured and loyal, a shrewd guy might be able to talk her into it. However most likely a woman like that will be shrewd herself and will dump you the moment the finds better options, and she has these options, everyone likes her remember.
Beauty is her power so she would always value it more than you are personally. She will always know that men will always come so long as she is pretty, so she will not think too much about dumping you in favour of someone else. At the same time, you will have to treat her like a museum piece, because she will not let you tarnish her beaty to have more fun fucking her. You will be not a husband, but a custodian and caretaker for the real star of the show.
That is not a role I wanted in a relationship. I am a sun and center of my life and its systems. There cannot be two suns in a solar system, thus a woman I needed and a woman who can actually appeal to me, has to have a moonlike quality and reflect my light as a pale soft moonlight rather than shine in her own right. If a woman shines like a sun and you are attracted to it, then you will be nothing more than one of her orbiters, wrapped around her little finger and ultimately disposable. A role wise caution against. To have a good wife one has to shine oneself and attract lunar kind of girls, attracted to you and willing to orbit around you, wrapped around your little finger.
Good for me that I actually find lunar women more attractive than solar ones.
Such lunar women not necessarily have to be ugly. In fact, extreme ugliness makes them weirdly confident in their own way, especially if they have large tits. Even most heinous and morbidly obese woman will have pride in herself and think she is a catch if she has tits bigger than that of Pamella Andersen. That is not what we want.
If I had to rate looks of such lunar woman, she has to be something of a 5/10 bland average, nothing really ugly about her, but nothing standing out as beauty either. Medium to small tits, to avoid giving her excessive pride. Furthermore, its best if she is short but slim with a petite body, quiet and introverted. Many Asian girls match this description, that is why I like Asian girls a lot.
Personality wise, it's important that she is introverted. Extroverted girls are fundamentally always out there on the look for someone better than you, you cannot trust them. Introverted is the way, that way she will not be around looking to replace you, but stay at home.
Generally, home should be her focus. She has to work to make your (mine in this case) life better. I want to eat tasty food, sleep in comfy bed, live in a clean house and generally have a comfortable life. She needs hospitality skills a lot more than make up skills. He job is not to impress my friends or parents with her stellar beauty but to keep my home hospitable for me personally.
Aside from that, it's good if she has nerdy interests like videogames or anime. That will allow me talk about these things with her be entertained with conversation.
Finally, and rather importantly, she has to have kinks compatible with mine. I want to tie up, humiliate and spank her and I want her to love it when I do these things to her.
And that is what a good girl is like. It's not 10/10 beauty, but other much less noticeable but much more important traits.
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